
In both my immediate and extended maternal family, there are men who have always held a special place in the hearts of the women. David, my younger brother, Todd, the middle man, and Kevin, the youngest cousin in the troop of 10. While our very female-dominated Kompelien clan includes brave male souls who married into the group and who are very well loved, these three boys managed to accomplish quite a bit during their younger years by just being charming.
David, Todd, and Kevin - our golden boys and we love them and tolerate them completely...and the devotion shown to them by our mother's generation is, even after years of adulthood, totally annoying.
Several years ago, one of my young daughters was introduced to Kevin and she immediately dubbed him "Princess Boy". You can call him that too if you'd like.
Now that we are all grown up, the golden boy phenomenon manifests itself in the cookie jar. When my brother makes the long trip from Seattle, we are not at all surprised to see his favorite toffee bars carefully stacked in popcorn tins in my mother's freezer. The bars are a buttery shortbread with a thin layer of Hershey's chocolate and a sprinkling of walnuts of pecans. They are great at room temperature or, if you are not a golden boy and need to sneak one out of the freezer, they taste great cold as well. My mom is always generous with me in every way - except in the cookie department. That treatment is reserved for David. Not that I'm jealous or anything. Mostly.
The second recipe is a favorite of Princess Boy. The top layer is a crunchy chocolate/peanut butter cream. I add 1/2 cup chopped peanuts to the top of this layer when I make them for guests - avoids hiding the peanuts from anyone allergic and gives extra crunch to the layer. The middle layer is marshmallow and the bottom is a simple chocolate cake.
My grandmother would make these bars during our summer visit to my grandparents house. They lived on a high hill above the beautiful Bull Shoals Reservoir in northern Arkansas. The lush vegetation, chiggers, copperheads, summer heat and humidity made it feel like an exotic jungle to a mountain child like me. After marching us out onto the deck to raise the American flag and say the pledge of allegiance, we were treated to bran muffins, mini golf, fishing, the devotion of our doting Grandpa, summer sausage sandwiches, water skiing, hilarious laughter and when we returned, grandma's bars and a game of hearts. This summer we are planning to be together in Montana - how lucky I feel to have all those great memories to draw on and such great cousins as friends!
My grandmother was always health conscious (long before it was in fashion) and I'm sure that I'm not the only grandchild who knew where she hid the goodies during the forbidden parts of the day. Just before dinner, for instance. Tiptoeing down the carpeted stairs into the cool basement and tactically deciding how many she'd miss out of her coveted stash is something I'm now willing to admit - just don't tell Grandma.
David's Toffee Bars
*I double this recipe and use a half sheet pan to make these and freeze half the batch for later.
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees and grease a 10x13 cookie sheet. Cream:
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1 c. butter (2 sticks)
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1 c. brown sugar
Then add:
Stir together:
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2 c. flour 1
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1/4 tsp. salt
Add to the egg and butter mixutre and mix thoroughly. Press into the prepared pan in an even layer.
Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes, until lightly brown. While still hot, "frost " with a giant Hershey bar broken into pieces - lay the chocolate pieces on the hot bars and then spread when melted with an offset spatula. Sprinkle chopped nuts (pecans or walnuts) on top. Cut while warm.
Princess Boy Chocolate Bars
*I like to use a 9 inch sqaure with straight sides for this recipe and cut them very small. You can also use a 13x9 pan for thinner layers. VERY RICH, these should be cut into small pieces either way.
Cream together butter and sugar until pale and light. Beat in the eggs and vanilla. Stir together the dry ingredients and add all at once until combined. Spread into the pan and bake for 20-25 minutes until the egdes start pulling away from the pan or until a toothpick comes out of the middle clean.
Remove from the oven and top with:
Return to the oven and bake until the marshmallows are puffy and cover the cake layer but are not brown. Let cool completely.
In a glass measuring cup, combine:
Melt in the microwave in 30 second incriments and stir until smooth. Stir in:
Spread this mixture on top of the cooled bars and (optional) sprinkle with 1/2 cup chopped salted peanuts. Chill unti firm, cut into small squares and serve.
P.S. I love you David, Todd and Kevin.